Thursday, January 20, 2011

I MISS YOU MUTATHA

DEAR MUTATHA,
I YUKTHA DAUGHTER OF UDAY KIRAN MISS YOU VERY VERY MUCH BECAUSE YOU WENT NEAR MUTAVVA AND GOD..PLEASE SAY WHY YOU WENT WE ALL MISS YOU VERY VERY VERY MUCH.I THINK YOU WENT TO CELEBRATE MUTAVVA'S BIRTHDAY. SOO PLEASE SAY FROM  MY SIDE TO MUTAVVA
             HAPPY BIRTHDAY
PLEASE I AM REQUESTING YOU TO TELL . ALL ARE CRYING FOR YOU. BE HAPPY THERE.
BE SMILING ALWAYS AND COME LIKE  BABY AGAIN.

WITH LOVE<3..<3..<3..
YUKTHA

You are so nice

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
WHEN YOU CAME OUT ON A WHEEL CHAIR TO ROAM IN THE COMPOUND I SAW THE HAPPINESS IN YOU....
I FELT BAD WHEN YOU LEFT US..
I WAS CRYING SO MUCH
PLEASE COME BACK AGAIN.....

YOUR LOVINGLY
ISHAN POLA

Tatha I Love You!!!

Tatha I miss you very much. I love you. You are so good!! I still remember the day when we played football, catching the ball etc and I was really happy when you told my name. We really miss you. You are the best tatha in the whole universe.
Everyone in the world loves you very much.
Why did you go?? Please reply me... Please come back.

I MISS YOU!
YOU ARE THE BEST TATHA!!
I LOVE YOU!!<3 <3
Yours
Sunetra Pola

Miss You Tatha...

We 

The end of a GREAT ERA.

On 19th January 2011, the Bhishma Pitamah of POLA family departed to the heavenly abode.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Blind Men and the Elephant

Dear Thatha,
I would like to share with you some of experiences in growing up under your umbrella.
first of all its heartening to see all the blogs written about you, your blogs reminds me of the story of the blind men and the elephant each of them describe you in various ways that they saw you but no one can completely describe you, your contemporaries have long gone off and neitheir can we relate to some of the things shared by aunt's and cousins but there is one thread that nobody can deny be it your contemporaries or our generation that you have a Samurai like discipline which if we implement even fraction of it in our lives will make us achieve extraordinary  results, let me share something since when I was conscious of what was happening around me not even a single day I have seen you change your diet or break from your routine (not everyone can be a diabetic for 40 years and keep the body fit as you did) not once I have seen you stop your activities for health reasons or fitness reasons neither I have seen you procrastinate things ,I cant keep my resolution of not having sweets for a day and if I work for more than 5 days continously I need a break badly, the thing that I like the most about your way of life is that I have never seen you complain or crib about things not happening your way you have just gone ahead and did what ever you wanted to in the process the whole of the family fell in line with your thought process no management guru can teach this better than the way you did through your way of life, you have complete track of what's happening in our lives be it our parents, children, health, business, properties you had an eagle eye on all our activities. 
Going back to the time when you fractured your leg the whole of Bellary's leading Doctors sprung into action trying to ascertain the best treatment that they can offer everyone were anxious about it one of them rightly said you are the Bhishma Pitamah of Bellary not just us.
Some of your peers from the village you came from describe you of how you used to travel almost 20 Kms from Molagavallil to Alur barefoot just to study under the street lights in Alur, how you lived all your life independently despite of loosing your parents in your early age the most fascinating thing about you is in spite of having 11 Children to look after and the heavy responsibility in raising them you found time for various community service activities almost any classic buildings built in Bellary be it Raghava Kala Mandir, Centenary hall, Gandhi Bhavan, Vasavi hall.. the list goes on and on... you were one of the founder patrons and led from the front in completing them, the last ones being as late as 2003(your age of 90) when you completed the 'Kalayana Bhavan' behind the house single handedly sitting on that poor 'Ambu' Mason to get things done. I have never seen you asking money or asking help from someone or taking personal favours from someone to achieve your individual needs...even the buildings that you constructed as late as 2003 you never asked a single pie from your children or grand children is inspiring. 

On the personal front I hardly had any intimate relationship with you nor I have shared any personal feelings with you, its understandable I am one of the 100+ children, Grand children, Great Grand Children. I have struggled to understand you I still remember the day when grandma died not a single drop shed from your eyes one thing I can understand you were an introvert, I am fortunate to be your grandson your life taught me more than your words (In Bhagvad Gita they say KARMAYOGI ). I guess you represent this class.
I sincererly hope and pray you get better soon
With loving regards,
--
Vikram Pola

Thursday, November 11, 2010


                                                                                      
POLA VENKAIAH  CHETTY (PVC)

-A great ‘Sthitha Pragnya’

Friday, November 5, 2010

A communiqué to Shri PVC from Gandham Laxminarayana

Parama Poojya Shri PVC Uncle,

My Shata Sahasra Koti Pranams to you. 

This communiqué is to recollect the great values that you have lived in your life and to reflect on the same to question ourselves as –Why we cannot follow at least some of the values you have lived, if not all.

I consider it is a great honour and my good fortune to pen the great qualities of your good self.  I sincerely thank the Almighty for giving me this opportunity.

It is extremely difficult to write about a personality like yours, who is credited with so many honours for serving the society, doing good to poor and needy and spending till date the entire life in service of others.

The few lines I write here may not necessarily reflect the entire personality of yours, as you are a Gandhian, a devotee of great sages like Swami Shivananda, Sri Ramakrishna Parmahamsa, and Swami Vivekananda.  You had even demonstrated that you can serve the poorest of the poor like Mother Teresa.

You are a businessman, like Janaka Maharaja in the sense that the wealth earned in the business did not come in the way of serving others.  You had the wealth, but wealth never possessed you.

In Bhagwad Gita the Lord Krishna has defined ‘Sthitha Pragnya’
(Man of Steady Wisdom) in terms of the qualities such a person need to possess.  As per Lord Krishna, ‘Sthitha Pragnya’ will be the one who is

  • Free from desires but doing his duty
  • Free from attachment
  • Free from likes and dislikes
  • Free from anger
  • Free from ‘I’ – ness/Ego

and who can maintain

  • Equanimity
  • Indriya Nigraha(Control of senses)

Uncle! When I go through your life sketch I find that you possess all the qualities of a Sthitha Pragnya.  One single statement about you proves that you are a Sthitha Pragnya i.e. ‘YOU ALWAYS LIVED YOUR LIFE FOR THE GOOD AND BETTERMENT OF OTHERS’

You have been a ‘Karma Yogi’, all through your life.  You believed in simplicity and also lived a very simple life though you could afford for a luxurious living.

You were inspired by Mahatma Gandhi and till today lived as a true Gandhian following the principles taught by him.

Your life is highly influenced by the teachings of Swami Shivananda, Sri Ramakrishna Parmahamsa, and Swami Vivekananda.  You propagated the teachings of these Swamijis to many around you in Bellary.  You have been the President of the Bellary branch of ‘The Divine Life Society’ established by Swami Shivananda for twenty years.

The poem you wrote on ‘Steps to Divine Life’ on 1/5/2000 speaks volumes about your spiritual personality.  In fact it is a great message from you to all your family members and the general public.  The poem clearly indicates the values one should live.  Your life story tells us that you have lived all of them.

You believed and enjoyed in serving the poor.  You headed many charitable trusts.  You gave generous donations to many educational institutions, hostels, hospitals and kalyana kendras.

You provided food to leprosy patients, probably influenced by the work of Mother Teresa.  You fed poor people with food prepared at your home on many of your birthdays.  You have been the President of Harijan Seva Sangh as back as in 1955.  As a Rotarian too, you had served the society by helping the poor.
‘Paropa Karam Idam Shariram’ is 100% true in your case. 

You are the ‘Role Model ‘ not only for  your family members but also every individual who knows you.  There are many things that can be learned from your life.  Whenever I meet any of your family members, I see a bit of PVC (yourself) i.e your qualities of humility, contentment and simplicity.  By hereditary also, generations and generations of people in your family are likely to acquire your qualities.  I am able to see these qualities of yours even in my daughter in law Shilpa, who is your grand daughter (daughter of your daughter Smt Chandrakala, W/O of Sri MS Jagadishwara of Chikmagalur).  I am proud to say that a bit of PVC (yourself) is in my house also for the last twelve years.

Uncle, I have great respect and admiration for you.  You are the rarest of the rare in Vysya community.  In fact your life is an inspiration to every Vysya and Non Vysya who knows you.  You live forever in the minds of the people who are associated with you.  You are a real ‘Sthitha Pragnya’.

Words do not suffice to write about your personality.  You are a rare Diamond in Vysya community.   You are a multi faceted personality.  You are a businessman, a philanthropist, a social worker, a reformer and a Karma Yogi in true sense.  There was always a ‘yagnya spirit’ in every activity that you performed so far in your life.  So you are nothing less than a ‘Sthitha Pragnya’.

I wish a person much more closer to you than myself shall attempt to write your biography with all the real stories that will prompt many to live what you have lived for.


                                                                  With pranams at your feet
                                                         
                                                                  Gandham Laxminarayana